❤ ..This Is How Mothers Are.. ❤

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This is my mother.

In our 25 years of togetherness, I have repeatedly given her each and every reason in the book to stop loving me... To give up on me... To stop rooting for me...
But, she would never! She absolutely refuses to!

Over the past 25 years, I've screamed at her. I've blatantly defied her. I've talked back. I've questioned her. I've done every stupid thing to put her in sorrow. 

I've made messes in her sweet home.  I've destroyed her peace of mind. I've been stubborn to no end. I've been rigid, and I've refused to understand.

I've made the same mistakes again and again, even when she asks me several times to rectify myself. I still play with chalks. I eat too spicy outside. I still wear funny things. She knows that I still play with chalks secretly. She never forgets to make all her efforts to stop me from doing all of that, but I resume it all again after sometime.

She still protects me from every bad thing in the world.
She takes it all, because she loves me.
She is my loving mother.

I cry and she is always there to listen. I'm hungry and she feeds me. 

I often feel lost, and she always helps me find my way.

When there is no solution, when I fail, she encourages me, and offers something way better; 

that's her unconditional love and support.

I take, and I take, and I take...

She just gives, and she gives, and she gives...

!!!...always...!!!

This pattern is bewildering, but fully certain so, since I'll never stop needing her. 

Be it any phase of my life and after.

In my weakest moments, when I had ceased loving myself; when I had given up on myself; when I had stopped standing for myself; my mother had always been there to tell me that she loves me, to tell me that she's proud of me, to tell me that I am capable enough to fight, and win every darn battle of life, to tell me that she will always be there with me, no matter what.

And with that, I continue to find my strength in her....to try again!

Her smile, that heals me.
Her touch, that brings me back to life.

Everything that I ever hope to accomplish in this life and in the life to come, is made possible because of this beautiful lady who is my mother, and for that, I am incredibly grateful!!!

Love you, Mommy!

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My mommy says..

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"Life is busy. People would often forget you easily. Don't feel bad if the best of your friends leave your hand in the hour of need, because people change, and so do their priorities. 

Sometimes, you might feel left out. You may also face a time when you would need to distance yourself from some people. Your surroundings might influence you to make negative choices. That's the moment when you would need to control your impulses and use your wisdom to understand what is right for you. 

Never make decisions in the heat of moment or in the influence of external factors like social or peer pressure. You might need to say "NO", without any fear ! It is always better to let go of the negatives, and inculcate only the positive traits of society in your behavior ! 

In life, you would meet people who would stand by you through thick and thin. You would be surprised by the unexpected gift of compassion from few out of many people around you. Long since lost hopes would pave new paths, to change your life and give it a whole new meaning.

Don't waste your time weaving intricate, fantasy worlds in your mind. Live in reality ! At the same time, enjoy your life to the fullest ! Take your part of social responsibilities seriously. Laugh as hard as you can with your family and friends. Be a reason for others' smile and never be judgmental towards anyone, quickly. 

~~~ Always remember to practice humanity since you are born as one ! You can always hurt someone and make them stronger, but you would never be able to call it "YOUR ACHIEVEMENT."

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